Wednesday, May 19, 2010

Happy 26th!

Just the other day I went to get a haircut. When I sat down and started chatting with the girl I thought it was very strange. Suddenly she asked if I can wash my own hair??? Uuuuhhmmm... well ofcourse, who can't. I found out that many women here in Taiwan don't do this themselves, they prefer to go to the hairdresser to get their hair wahed, massaged and done. Haha it's an other way to get spoiled.

In Taiwan there is no real official ambassy but there is the NTIO [a Dutch trading and investment office]. Every year on Queensday (4/30) the representive Menno Goedhart holds a party for all the Dutch in Taiwan. Recently Mr. Goedhart also published a book about the connection between The Netherlands and Taiwan. Aming and me joined the party ofcourse. It was amazing, they had 'bitterballen', 'Gouda' cheese and even orange tullips. There was a live band and some local tribe dancers. The funniest part was that when Aming and me were standing, talking for a bit and eating a voice from behind came. It kept calling 'classmate' in Chinese; 同學 同學!! When we turned around Aming discovered that it was his old university classmate, calling out for him. She also married a Dutch. The world is so small.
Oh and that they I was told that my Chinese was so good, but one Dutch men said my Dutch was very poor!!! So insulting! Yeah ok sometimes I cannot come up with the word, I will have the English and Chinese. But it is not that bad right! Ahhh no worries, he's just jealous of my Chinese! :)

Then ofcourse last Tuesday I had my birthday. About 3 years ago I held a beachparty with the girls soccer team, Aming's friends and some other friends. It was so much fun. When I came back last year, inmediately I got requests to hold that party again. So I did, but to have an even better then that first was a bit difficult. I tried though. I made invites and spread them. Went to Costco to buy food and drinks. Aming prepared goals and soccerballs from his work. And last Sunday (5/16) we went. Unfortunately many friends were not able to make it. So the group was smaller then the years before. But we still had a lot of fun. We played soccer, went for a swim and had food and drinks. The weather was also not bad, not too hot and not too cold. The days before it was rainy and cloudy, so I was a bit worried. With the soccer game, we girls beat the boys ass, so they had to drink! Hahahaha....





We even bought a sky lantern near the beach. Everybody wrote their name and a brithday wish for me on it. After watching one of our good friend A-zhong) do a performance on national television we lit the sky lantern and watched it carfeully dissapear in the sky. It was a really big one.
After the beachparty Duo Shang (Aming's friend) invited us to go to KTV. We all took a shower at the beach and went back to Taipei to go to the Holiday KTV. Everybody was very high and was having so much fun. The girls which are in the picture beside are still students and are living in the school dorm. This dorm has a curvue, they had to be back inside befor 12:30. But we all forgot time a little bit, so finally when they left, they were afraid they wouldn't make it. They took a cab instead of the MRT and when back home. Arriving just at 12:25. Pfieuwww just in time! We all had a blast. We sang and drunk untill 1 in the morning. Then everybody slowly went home, exhausted but looking back on a fun and happy day.
I put all of the pictures on Facebook.


It is also standard that with Aming's soccer team BuLian we go out for dinner. So this year I invited them to come to our house. Aming's parents were out for the weekend. Even the boss came, so people said I must be very important! Hahaha... we had dinner and drinks and a really big cake. Aming thought it was necessary to put the cake in my face! The next morning we heard from some neighbours we were very loud. But hey once a year doesn't matter right!




On Monday I had lunch with Rita, Zjamerny, Joy and Joyce. We went to eat a small hotpot and I brought some cake from theother party. After that they had to go back to school. Only Rita had no class that day. So we decided to go window shopping at Taipei 101. When we came there I called Dewi to ask if she was busy. She invited us to come over and hang out near the pool. Well even better. We had some drinks, put our legs in the pool and chit chatted. Then at dinnertime, Rita and me went to Taipei 101 to walk around, shop a bit and talk a lot. We had so much fun. When we were done at about 10 pm, we walked back to Rita's motorcycle. When we sat on the motorcycle we both said, oh my legs are so tired and I can really feel them. We decide to get a massage at home. But unfortunatly Aming wasn't in to that. Hahahahaha...

On Tuesday my actual birthday, Aming and me went out for dinner to a very romantic restaurant in Danshui. We saw this restaurant a while ago, but it is so popular that everytime all tables are taken and they said you have to make a reservation. Well we did for this day. It was great. It looks so beautifull, with ocean view and the food was good too. We had some special beers. Aming had melon-flavour beer (very very sweet) and I had a normal white-beer. Later that evening when we went home, one of my good friends A-zhong (阿中) came by to give me a small cake and a present. So sweet!!!! I am really spoiled this year. And I know for sure I also have some really good friends here in Taiwan. So I couldn't be any happier at the moment. Maybe in August, when all my loved ones will be here, I am even happier. But for now, no complaints at all!!!

Well gotta go to class, my students are waiting for me. I am probably their favorite teacher, as I brought a chocolate cake to eat with them last Friday. And today we are deviding presents for the best student in class. Yipppie!!!!

Bye bye xxx Melanie

Thursday, May 13, 2010

Beginning of 2010, back in the air!

Well after a long while here I am again. Pimpblog was having some problems previously so I could not post any messages. After that I was busy and forgotten to write something. SORRY!!!!
Well last time it was Christmas and cold. Luckily the weather is getting much better every day. Yesterday I was even wearing shorts and a t-shirt! Finnally summer is coming.
In February we ofcourse celebrated Chinese New Year. Which is a week of celebrations. You have two options; 1 stay home and go out for dinner and drinks every day or 2 go travelling with your family or friends. Well this year we decided to stay in Taipei. So the whole week was about dinnerparties here and there. After a week you really need another break. But it is the perfect time to catch up wit
h old friends or good friends.
After Chinese New Year, we had our pre-wedding photo shoot. This is actually something where Taiwan is very famous for. People form other Asian countries come to Taiwan to shoot the pictures, or they go with the whole crew to other countries, just for the view. It is crazy. Before the wedding you go to several places to make the most beautifull pictures of you and your fiancee. Ofcourse also a lot is corrected with photoshop. They love photoshop here, they will make their eyes bigger and make them even more skinny. Every spot is erased and their skin will be very white. Sometimes when the picture is taken it was cloudy and rainy, but the photographer can still make it look like the perfect sunny day! Well, Aming and me choose the clothes and looked on the internet for the kind of pictures we liked. And it was fun being a model for one day, but my jaws were stiff when we went back. Having to put up a fake smile the whole day poeh! And I have never worn so much makeup in my entire life. I even had fake eyelashes!!!! But hey the pictures turned out beautifully.

Then in February I also met another Dutchie (Dewi). She has just moved to Taiwan with her Danish husband. We met and had a click. So we are often hanging out now. Last week I took her to eat one of my favourites "Jia Mu Ya" (duck/ginger hot pot). She wasn't that enthousiastic but afterwards she agreed it was good. A balloon magician came and entertain us some more. Giving me a bunch of flowers and Dewi angel wings.
And Dewi helped me sign up for the Dragon Boat Races. I will be participating in the Dutch boat. And what you all not know is that when you participate in this you have to practice ofcourse. But these practices are very very very hard. You have them early in the morning, before everybody starts work. So perhaps 6-8 and you will be fagged for sure!!!! They really work on your physical con
dition. But I have to try it once right! I'll keep you posted.

Aming's mother is looking after a small boy called An-An. He is sooooo cute! And sometimes I will take him to the park or to the soccerfield to play. As Aming's mother is getting older ofcourse she is not always in for this. When it was his birthday, Aming and me took him too the zoo! He loved watching all the animals, eating ice-cream and running in the zoo. When we bought a small cake and lighted the candle he started to cry. Seems that he is afraid of fire. Because he kept saying we had to blow it... hahahaha.

I have been teaching English more and more lately. It is an expensive year, so working harder want be bad. And last 2 weeks I had to tutor a highschool student. He had an English University interview. He wants to become and English teacher himself and so he was really determined to enter this University. We had several classes to practice and improve his self introduction and to answer questions. Not only looking at his English ability, but also his gestures and his attitude. Well finally yesterday I heard that he made it through. So he is very happy and ofcourse I am proud that I could help him.
Next month is ofcourse my birthday, and we will go to the beach again. Same as two years ago.
Well have to go.

Keep you posted next month. xxx Melanie